You don't have many problems. You have 1
Do you understand that the same mind that perceives your problems cannot be the same one to solve them?
If I can be so bold, your single biggest 'problem' is that other people are not behaving how you imagine they should. They're too difficult, too invalidating, too rejecting, too difficult.
I know.
But the thing is you cannot live enough lifetimes to convince other people to play the part in a script you wrote.
You keep recruiting them for a role they have *repeatedly* signaled they don't want.
It's not their madness. It's yours.
So let it piss you off; let it break your heart but then, for the love of God, take your sacred energy—take your authority and your power—and in the holiest of ways ask yourself: Why is it, really, that I am so desperate for them to agree with me? To listen to me? To validate me? To see it my way?
And what you will see—whenever you decide you are ready—is that you need other people to believe you only to the degree you don't believe yourself.
And the reason you’re so damn stressed out is because, of course, you need to hustle like hell to get other people to sustain you in the ways you keep saying you can’t sustain yourself.
At some point, though, you wake up. A change of consciousness begins with better questions, and a new one occurs to you: Is it really that I need to put more energy into getting more external agreement—more validation, more accolades, more sympathy, more praise? Or is it that I need to put that same energy into strengthening my inner authority?
Extraordinary power doesn't require agreement.
Extraordinary power requires a new type of reckoning.
The Age of Energy is coming.
Stay tuned.